To All A Good Night
You’ve just spent a good part of the evening preparing your baby for bed. As she falls asleep in your arms you tenderly place her in her cot; her eyes flash open and she screams the house down. So you lift her and start all over again.
Routine is a great teacher. But getting into one is not so easy. It takes time and perseverance on your part. But at the end of the day it makes for a happy family.
Try to have a set bedtime. As it approaches, watch for signs that your baby is getting tired. She may cry for a prolonged period and only settle when you lift her. Or she may rub her eyes or pull at her ears. Try to notice such signs, because if she gets over-tired it will become more difficult to settle her.
A warm bath can be a wonderful way to prepare baby for sleep. Avoid playing with the baby during her bedtime bath. You do not want to get her excited as this will have the opposite effect to that intended. Simply trickle some warm bath water over her as she lies in the bath. After bathing, many babies are very receptive to a baby massage. There are lots of good baby massage books available which show you a variety of massage techniques.
After her massage, give baby a cuddle and dress her for bed. Keep your movements slow; this will ensure she stays calm. Some babies enjoy a feed before sleeping, so you may like to feed her after her bath. If she is breastfed she may fall asleep on the breast. It is best to waken her before placing her in her cot as babies can get frightened if they awaken in different surroundings to those in which they fell asleep.
Leave a small, dim, night-light on so that baby will not be frightened if she awakens later on. It is also a good idea to play a soothing lullaby CD and leave it playing quietly on repeat. Play the same CD every night and baby will begin to look forward to bedtime.
Avoid keeping the whole house silent. Babies need to learn to sleep through some noise.
Within two or three nights most babies stop protesting and have learnt what bedtime means. Many happily lie down and fall straight to sleep once the routine is established. As a result your baby will be happier and so will your family.
Goodnight!
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